How to rape your wife according to Muhammad Sunnah?

?How to rape your wife according to Muhammad Sunnah
Magdy Tadros
Author of the Quran said in Surah 4:34
Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.
Tafsir Ebn Kathir
Allah’s statement,
abandon them in their beds,
Ali bin Abi Talhah reported that Ibn Abbas said,
“The abandonment refers to not having
intercourse with her, to lie on her bed with his
back to her.”
Several others said similarly.
another narration, added,
“Not to speak with her or talk to her.”
The Sunan and Musnad compilers recorded that
Muawiyah bin Haydah Al-Qushayri said,
“O Allah’s Messenger! What is the right that the
wife of one of us has on him” The Prophet said,
another narration, added,
“Not to speak with her or talk to her.”
The Sunan and Musnad compilers recorded that
Muawiyah bin Haydah Al-Qushayri said,
“O Allah’s Messenger! What is the right that the
wife of one of us has on him” The Prophet said,
To feed her when you eat, cloth her when you
buy clothes for yourself, refrain from striking her
face or cursing her, and to not abandon her,
except in the house
Arabic meaning for the arabic word “Hajr” used in surah 3:34
So in english translation the word used in arabic for banish is “ohjorohoon” from “hajr” and this actually has two meanings as explained in Tafsir Kortobi, Tabari and others
a- insult them with dirtiest Cursing words
b- tie them up with ropes into bed!
as the word “Hajr” itself tieing animals with ropes
Wife’s Beating
also in Tafsir Ibn Kathir we find
Allah’s statement,
beat them,
means, if advice and ignoring her in the bed do
not produce the desired results, you are allowed
to discipline the wife, without severe beating.
Muslim recorded that Jabir said that during the Farewell
Hajj, the Prophet said;
Fear Allah regarding women, for they are your
assistants. You have the right on them that they
do not allow any person whom you dislike to step
on your mat. However, if they do that, you are
allowed to discipline them lightly. They have a
right on you that you provide them with their
provision and clothes, in a reasonable manner.
Ibn Abbas and several others said that;
the Ayah refers to a beating that is not violent.
Al-Hasan Al-Basri said that;
it means, a beating that is not severe.
A main duty for the Angels
Mohammed made cursing a woman who is not obeying her husband one of the main duties of Allah angels so said in hadith and tafsir
Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses [and does not come], and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning.’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4794; the additional phrase quoted in square brackets is from Abu Dawood, al-Sunan, Kitaab al-Nikaah, Bab haqq al-zawj ‘ala’l-mar’ah).
http://sunnah.com/muslim/16/143
So if I am a Muslim women who for some particular reason not willing to have sex with her non loving husband but their will be angels curing me all night because of my refusal, is not that a way to force me into bed???
Is not that a practical rape????
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more insults to women status
Hadith and tafsir concur that if allah allowed others to be worshiped it will be the husband from his wife as said in ..
Ibn Maajah (1853) narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Abi Awfa said: When Mu’aadh came from Syria, he prostrated to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said, “What is this, O Mu’aadh?” He said, I went to Syria and saw them prostrating to their archbishops and patriarchs, and I wanted to do that for you. The Messenger of Allaah (S) said, “Do not do that. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allaah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman can fulfil her duty towards Allaah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse.”
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